Tag: love

How to deal with boredom in a relationship?

How to deal with boredom in a relationship?

by MJMCM ♥ 2 Comments
Boredom in relationship.

Is the word boring really exists in a relationship? Have you ever experienced it? How did you deal with it? This post will tackle about why some relationships are experiencing boredom and tips on how you can deal and pass through it.

We can feel different emotions and that’s why we’re able to express different feelings too. One of them is the feeling of being bored. Let’s say, for example, when you do an activity for a very long time, and it’s already repeating, what can you feel? Boredom, will come out in a relationship if you aren’t doing something that fulfills both of you. It becomes stagnant, the relationship is already unproductive and could be the start of undesirable breakup stories. Never come into a point that you’ll never do something about it! If you love that person, fight for him/her, and please never be defeated by boredom in your relationship. Save your relationship while you can. Slowing down in your relationship is normal, don’t expect it to be the same just as when you were starting your love story or during the first year of being together. It’s not always like that, and it’s not like a fairy tale love story. You’re dealing with a real life-love story that you really need to work on, in order for it to be successful.

Here are tips that you may consider in dealing with boredom in your relationship:

  • It is important to spend time together and identify one thing that makes you happy and attached.
  • What is that hobby or activity that when you do will enhance your relationship more?
  • Come up with a shared to-do-list.
  • Make something new in a weekly basis.
  • Open up your feelings, so that he/she would be aware of what’s inside you.
  • Appreciate your partner, connect with him/her always.
  • Go for a date, and enjoy each other’s company.

“To achieve the love story that everyone dreams to have, you need to ensure a give and take relationship, love more, so you could receive more, be faithful, respectful and honest all the time. Enjoy and cherish each moment of being together. Consider your partner your little home”.

How to keep a good relationship with your spouse till the end?

How to keep a good relationship with your spouse till the end?

by MJMCM ♥ 2 Comments

Is this possible? Yes, and to make it possible both of you should be willing to work on it. This post will tackle how to keep your relationship with your husband or wife on the right path! You might already have heard of this quote “just keep the fire burning”. It means that your connection with each other in a daily life basis should be warmth with so much love, attention and compassion. These are important things to keep on track for a relationship to stay stronger all the way.

Image source: Photo library, provided by pexels

Here are some helpful tips that you may consider:

  • In the morning when you wake up, be sure to give him or her a beautiful smile and a comfy hug, as this will always mean a lot to your spouse.
  • Dedicate hours of a no gadgets in your hands at home. Use that time to make a happy moment together, hold his or her hand and talk about your beautiful experiences, plans about the future or any topic that would engage both of you.
  • Let him feel that he is always valuable and always show your appreciation to him or her. When you were at the stage of knowing each other, surely you had already said a lot of beautiful words to appreciate him or her, why not do it a habit to still find words of appreciation for his or her little life achievements.
  • Find reasons to smile and laugh together. Your relationship will face a lot of challenges, but you shouldn’t take it so seriously to the point that smiles already aren’t visible in your faces.
  • Be the one to take the first step if you have misunderstandings, do not wait for who should start to say sorry or who should approach first to fix things right.
  • Always tell him or her how much he or she means to you, the word I love you will always mean a lot.
  • Plan for a date, dating life shouldn’t stop the moment you are already married, always find time.
  • Always avoid being judgmental, we cannot hide the fact that sometimes a misunderstanding will take place in your relationship but make sure to talk about it and fix it immediately.
  • Make decisions together, include him or her in your life decisions whatever it is, because it will give him or her a message that you care for any opinions or suggestions that he or she will say.
How to keep a good relationship with your spouse until the end?

How to keep a good relationship with your spouse until the end?

by MJMCM ♥ 2 Comments

Is this possible? Yes, and to make it possible, both of you should be willing to work on it. This post will tackle how to keep your relationship with your husband or wife on the right path! You might already have heard of this quote, “just keep the fire burning”. It means that your connection with each other in a daily life basis should be warmth with love, attention, and compassion. These are important things to keep on track for a relationship to stay stronger all the way.

Good relationship with spouse.
Image source: Photo library, provided by pexels

Here are some helpful tips that you may consider:

  • In the morning, when you wake up, be sure to give him/her a beautiful smile and a comfy hug, as this will always mean a lot to your spouse.
  • Dedicate a time for a no gadgets in your hands at home. Use that time to make a happy moment together, hold his or her hand and talk about your beautiful experiences, plans about the future or any topic that would engage both of you.
  • Let him feel that he is always valuable, and always show your appreciation to him/her. When you were at the stage of knowing each other, surely you had already said beautiful words to appreciate each other. Why not do it a habit to still find words of appreciation for each other’s little life achievements?
  • Find reasons to smile and laugh together. Your relationship will face many challenges, but you shouldn’t take it so seriously to the point that smiles already aren’t visible in your faces.
  • Be the one to take the first step if you have misunderstandings. Do not wait for who should start to say sorry, or who should approach first to fix things right.
  • Always tell him/her how much he/she means to you, the word I love you will always mean a lot.
  • Plan for a date, dating life shouldn’t stop the moment you are already married, always find time.
  • Always avoid being judgmental, we cannot hide the fact that sometimes a misunderstanding will take place in your relationship, but make sure to talk about it and fix it immediately.
  • Make decisions together, include him/her in your life’s decisions, whatever it is because it will give him/her an idea that you care for any opinions or suggestions that he/she will contribute.
How to achieve a fulfilling and healthy relationship

How to achieve a fulfilling and healthy relationship

by MJMCM ♥ 4 Comments

Are you in loved? Brokenhearted? Looking for someone? Smiling or crying because of somebody? Well just think of this, “Love should never hurt you”. You already found that true love when you are in a satisfying relationship, meaning you are happy and contented having each other.

There was a belief that someone is already out there destined for us. Do you believe in what they called destiny? For some, they believed that we are the one making and finding it. Do you agree? Whatever it is, you will know and feel it when it’s already what they say “the one”.

How to achieve a fulfilling and healthy relationship? Consider these “COUPLE GOALS” tips.

  • Complete trust is needed- it is a very essential component of a healthy relationship. Without it, you cannot build one. Trust means you commit to the person by words and deeds. You believed in him or her and is comfortable and safe for you to be with that person.
  • One and only- means you must be faithful, commit yourself to your partner. Cheating by words, thoughts and actions aren’t in your preference. You choose to focus on your relationship.
  • Understanding your partner’s emotions- having a substantial amount of respect on his or her feelings is necessary, respect and listen to what he or she is saying before talking, consider the opinion of each other.
  • Pray together- you are meant to be soulmates. In order for these two souls to bind forever it should be nourished with God’s guidance and protection.
  • Love unconditionally- as the word says, it is a love without condition. It is a love without limits and restrictions. You love the person for whom he or she is, and not for what he or she has.
  • Eliminate jealousy- because it may kill your relationship and always watch your words- whenever you have problems or arguments it’s better to talk about it, never think of bad words to utter because it will live into their mind.
  • Gift from God- a precious gift that should be taken care of, a lifetime gift that you are excited to open every day.
  • Offer an open arms- when things are tough, give him or her a hug, this ensures that he or she is not alone whatever challenges you have in life.
  • A love with a genuine honesty — telling the truth and leaving no lies or hidden agendas under your head. Be open on what you feel.
  • Look out never be out of their mind- communicate with him or her always, never leave a gap between the two of you (but of course you may want to eliminate obsessing your partner, just the right amount for it to work). Specially if you are far from each other. Talk without limits, talk about what you are eating or will eat for lunch or dinner, if you already have kids- you can talk about them, about shared moments when you’re together, about your dreams etc.
  • Show your feelings- never hide what you feel, express your emotions. When you are happy show him- smile and laugh together! When you are sad, angry and disappointed let him or her know, just talk calmly and offer a solution or help to your partner.

It’s a matter of love and understanding, give more and receive more, a healthy and fulfilling relationship is like a treasure in a box of golds and diamonds that you want to keep for a lifetime. When you already have it, appreciate and take good care of it.

How to achieve a fulfilling and healthy relationship?

How to achieve a fulfilling and healthy relationship?

by MJMCM ♥ 4 Comments
Fulfilling and healthy relationship.

Are you in loved? Brokenhearted? Searching for someone? Smiling or crying because of somebody? Well, just think of this, “Love should never hurt you”. You already found that true love when you are in a satisfying relationship, meaning you are happy and contented having each other.

There was a belief that someone is already out there, destined for us. Do you believe in what they called destiny? For some, they believed that we are the one making and finding it. Do you agree? Whatever it is, you will know and feel it when it’s already what they say “the one”.

How to achieve a fulfilling and healthy relationship? Consider these “COUPLE GOALS” tips.

  • Complete trust- it is a very essential component of a healthy relationship. Without it, you cannot build one. Trust means you commit to the person by words and deeds. You believed in him/her, and it is comfortable and safe for you to be with that person.
  • One and only- means you must be faithful, commit yourself to your partner. Cheating by words, thoughts, and actions aren’t in your preference. You choose to focus on your relationship.
  • Understanding your partner’s emotions- having a substantial amount of respect on his/her feelings is necessary. Respect and listen to what he/she is saying before talking, consider the opinion of each other.
  • Pray together- you are meant to be soulmates. In order for these two souls to bind forever, it should be nourished with God’s guidance and protection.
  • Love unconditionally- as the word says, it is a love without condition. It is a love without limits and restrictions. You love the person for whom he/she is, and not for what he/she has.
  • Eliminate jealousy- because it may kill your relationship and always watch your words, choose to talk and fix everything if a problem or a misunderstanding occurs.
  • Gift from God- a precious gift that should be taken care of, a lifetime gift that you are excited to open every day.
  • Offer open arms- when things are tough, give him/her a hug, this ensures that he/she is not alone whatever challenges you have in life.
  • A love with a genuine honesty — telling the truth and leaving no lies or hidden agendas under your head. Be open to what you feel.
  • Look out, never be out of their mind. Communicate with him/her always. Never leave a gap between the two of you (but of course you may want to eliminate obsessing your partner, just the right amount for it to work). Specially, if you are far from each other. Talk without limits, talk about what you are eating or will eat for lunch or dinner. If you already have kids- you can talk about them, about shared moments when you’re together, about your dreams etc.
  • Show your feelings- never hide what you feel, express your emotions. When you are happy, show him! Smile and laugh together! When you are sad, angry and disappointed let him/her know, just talk calmly and offer a solution or help to your partner.