I would always love and recommend this line: “go out of your comfort zone” as one of the common motivational words that we often hear or read to some books and posts that aims to lift someone else confidence! Occasionally, when I feel like I can’t do it. That I can’t do better, I keep pushing myself with this step, and this step which you should do to start ahead with your goals in life and be able to achieve it is to trust yourself!
Similarly, when you commit yourself to somebody, you would say yes I do! It’s because you trust him or her, and it’s because you really feel and think the same way that person does.
It is also like building rapport if you are a health care provider. Before you can achieve the trust or confidence of your patient in whatever health care procedure you are about to initiate, you have to build a trusting relationship first. Because if you don’t do it in the start, the patient would be feeling scared or will go away!
Or if you are a business owner, you have to gain the trust of your prospective buyers for them to buy your products. So, it’s really about gaining and giving trust to go ahead!
Just like the given examples, you also have to build a trusting relationship with yourself! To fully do what you want to do and to show what you can. Without trusting yourself first, you can never see yourself on the finish line, you would always get that feeling of moving backward instead of forwarding, you will be left behind from the crowd all the time!